Category: Life

  •   “MY THREE -YEAR PLAN”

      “MY THREE -YEAR PLAN”

    What will your life be like in three years?

    Honestly, I want to say that whatever we think our life to be, it’s not always like that. We can’t take the guarantee of what’s going to happen next minute but still we make plans which is our way of living may be it’s very awkward because being unknowing about the future we make plans it’s very interesting I think, but that doesn’t mean that dreaming big is worthless but how it will fulfill, what type of struggles we have to go through we literally don’t have any idea but yeah like every people on this Earth, I also have some dreams for coming years:

    1 To love myself- The first thing I want to learn is to love myself, whatever the situation is. This is because loving ourselves has the power to heal every pain. We should smile confidently in every tough situation. I want to adapt this in my life.


    2 To be best in academics- From my childhood, I’ve been quite good in studies and I love to study. In the coming 3 years, I want to be more passionate about my studies. I also want to focus on my career. I aim to be successful so that I can stand by my family. 


    3 Not to hurt anybody – of course, I dont think that I always hurt people, no! Not that, but yeah, I want to make sure that nobody gets hurt because of me. I want every person to be happy. I never want to be the reason for someone’s sadness.. 


    4 To be independent- I always wanted to be independent. My mother takes responsibility for my studies because I’m not earning anything yet. I’ll try to be independent as soon as possible. I don’t want to be a burden for her. So, I’ll try to earn something to take responsibility for some part of my expenses. 


    5 Keeping relation with every loving person- nowadays many people forget to make time for their relationships but I want to keep relation with every lovely people in my life because being passionate about earning money is right but I think keeping relation is also very important which I want to maintain


    These are my expectations from myself in the next 3 years. After fulfilling these expectations, I want to maintain them till the end of my life. Life is precious. Don’t live for others, live for yourself…!!

  •    THE BIGGEST WHAT IF.

       THE BIGGEST WHAT IF.

    What’s the biggest risk you’d like to take — but haven’t been able to?

    They say, “Life begins outside your comfort zone”

    Trusting people very easily can lead to regret. You might meet someone who transforms your world. You tell them things you’ve never shared with another soul. They absorb everything and want to hear more. You share hopes, knowing they will share in your excitement.

    A phone call helps to get you through. In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation. We think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend. You know that your heart might break one day. However, your love is greater than anything.

    Life seems completely different, exciting, and worth it. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life.

    And finally, when circumstances change them, you basically regret for your love towards that one person.

    To have regrets is to not forgive yourself.

    And not forgive yourself means that you do not love yourself, do not trust yourself, appreciate yourself.

    Life is to have experiences. If the experience turns out as we expected, we call it ‘success,’ otherwise we call it ‘failure.’ But they are only experiences!
    The only ‘real’ failure is to not learn from experience.

    Life is life. Life is to be lived. Life is so independent that it even decides by itself when to en without consulting us.
    The only thing that we can do is choose how to live it!

    The only thing that we have is the present. Past is gone, it’s memories; learn from it. Future is still to come; we don’t even know if we’ll be here when it comes.

  •   A LIFE WORTH LIVING.

      A LIFE WORTH LIVING.

      What are you most proud of in your life?

    It’s a tough one isn’t it? Everyone has something they like and something they hate about themselves and their perception is correct.

    I’ve been told by people that they admire my confidence or the fact that I’m calm under pressure. People from the outside have an idea of a happy life that I’m apparently living.

    The truth is my life’s a mess. I’ve struggled and continue to do so every single day even with problems that weren’t my creation. I’ve got health issues, relationship problems, problems with family, at college and generally everywhere around me. I’m basically a trouble magnet. And yet still I’m surfing somehow.

    No actually, I’m thriving. And when I look back to the road that got me here, it seems crazy that I’ve ven made it this far. No one gave me anything, most didn’t even believe in me. So if you ask, what I’m proud of most in me or in my life then I gotta say I’m proud of the choices I made and the fact that they were mine and not somebody else’s. I took my decisions, I decided my turns and the ways to get over the roadblocks and I didn’t become vicious or bitter at them. My choices are what got me here, and I hope that I continue to make them as I’ve done so far- on my own terms.