Daya Let's Talk

Author: Daya

  •      IMPRESSIONS.

         IMPRESSIONS.

    What’s the first impression you want to give people?

    Of course, first impressions do matter. Most of us care how we come across to someone, even at a party, which is why we go over it in our heads afterwards worrying that we said something stupid.

    Sometimes, people behave questionably because they can’t control their conduct or manners. That’s just how they are, and other people will be fine with it. We’re all different, and we never know how we’ll react to someone we meet. It depends on our age and the situation. A job might be put up with someone who is arrogant because they are very good at what they do. Whereas you might not want to date someone like that.

    Some people might not care what anyone thinks about them and won’t make an effort. They’re being honest, but many people won’t find that to be attractive. In some cases, it is possible that someone doesn’t know any better how to behave—they might not have been taught the proper social behaviour for that particular situation.

    Even before the first word is spoken, you can usually tell if someone is unkind, dishonest, or snobby or anything truly negative. It’s difficult to fake those things unless someone is a real narcissist. But most people can’t fake it. If you’re on a date and they are rude to a waiter, you know immediately that it’s unacceptable.

    It’s best to be yourself and not try too hard when meeting someone. But you should behave appropriately for the occasion.. be it a job interview or a date or anything in-between.

  • BETTER LATE THAN NEVER.

    BETTER LATE THAN NEVER.

             What did you learn too late in your life?

    Nothing in life is too late to learn, except these few things:

    1) You will eventually die. – Nothing is certain. Therefore, you should live in a way that makes you happy, instead of letting so much time slip by to only wake up one day full of regrets of not pursuing your callings. Live immediately.

    2) Your habits will take over your life. – The chains of our habits are too light to be felt until they are too heavy to be broken. So, it’s important to start creating healthy ones as soon as possible.

    3) People come, people go. – They will drift in and out of your life, almost like characters in favourite book. Make a habit of letting them tell their story and letting them go. Then, start another book.

    4) Don’t lose it for anyone. – Some people wait for you to give them a chance to bust on you. Ignore those people. Don’t talk to those people. Avoid looking at those people. They are here to teach you how to control yourself rightly. You’re worth more than this.

    5) You are your greatest asset. – Walk like you love yourself. Talk like you love yourself. Eat like you love yourself. Dress like you love yourself. Invest in yourself. Read. Exercise. The most important relationship in your life is the one you have with yourself.

    6) Your mental health is just as important as your physical health. – So, be with someone who is good for your mental health. Meditate. Feed your mind good stuff – No TV, no crappy books, no shitty people, and no dead-end jobs. There is never a refund on a wasted time.

    7) The people are fucked. And you, too, are a human. – Don’t trust just anyone. Doubt others, and doubt yourself. Then, re-evaluate your actions and adjust them to better suit your aspirations, dreams, and goals. If you can’t find a leader who inspires you, be the leader you wish you had.

    8) Respecting yourself enough to… – Create your life in a way that makes you feel good. A job you don’t like? Life is short – quit. People stepping all over you? Start being unapologetically yourself. Don’t have time to get important things done? Be the first one up. Oh yeah, and please, always use a condom.

    9) Freedom is incredibly scary to people. – People have become so comfortable being told what to do, how to do it, when to do it, with whom and why, that they don’t know how to be themselves anymore. That’s why everyone who shows signs of freedom reminds others in what prison they live. Expect prisoners to revolt.

    10) Give less fucks. – Stop giving fucks about everything and everyone. That is, about what people are saying about you, about whether that cute boy/girl called you back or not, about whether your socks match or not, or what color your birthday balloon is.

    11) You will mostly find interests, not friends. – And people, waiting to stab a knife in your back. Only your family supports you unconditionally (except for when they don’t.) Most everyone will back off when you ask for help, unless they are favored in some way.

             “Experience keeps a dear school, but fools will learn in on others.”- Benjamin Franklin

                             I sign out…

                        Dayawetalk.

  •    SCREEN TIME SAVVY.

       SCREEN TIME SAVVY.

    How do you manage screen time for yourself?

    If you use mobile devices, laptops, and TV for necessities like office work or entertainment within limits, then it’s okay. However, if you use these things excessively to gain something extra, there is something wrong. Using them as your best friend while neglecting social life, family, and health is not good..

    To control SCREEN TIME, first control your mind. Engage in self-therapy. Divert your attention to other activities that take your focus away from screens. Every individual has some passion or talent. Take little breaks in between to stay away from screens. You can have fruits or a cup of coffee. Write something or read books. Go to the gym or cook if that’s what you love. You may gossip with your friend, spend some time with nature, or listen to music.

    Sport lovers love to play outside, go outside for cycling, play badminton, etc..

    So it is up to you only. You must avoid those things which are not good for health. These are not good for your life. Overuse or misuse of anything is never good ….

    And learn to say NO to many of those things which are harmful ..

    NEVER PICK UP YOUR PHONE WHEN YOU GET UP IN THE MORNING. FIRST, PRAY AND THANK GOD FOR YOUR LIFE. THEN, READ THE NEWSPAPER. GO OUTSIDE NEAR YOUR PLANTS AND HAVE BLACK COFFEE.

         Daya, l sign out………